Please forgive any typos, my brian is still very much recovering. I’m not promoting anything cause nothing I’ve made yet is really worth much to anyone but my self,and everything is far from polished. I’m just sharing what I’m doing. In November '24, I had a mid level stroke. I’ve had issues with motor skills, headaches, and short term memory, but for the most part I’m doing quite well. For the last 6-8 months, I build a home server, (AMD 3700x, 64GB of RAM, 6TBNvME, and 2x 12TB HDD, old NVIDIA 2060. I setup up Jellyfin, ripped our 400ish Blu Rays, DVDs, and TV Shows. Setup Navidrone, and ripped our CDs, Home Assistant, AudoBookshelf, ConvertX, MeTube, and several other apps mostly discovered here. I also wrote my own app to track our large physical Media Collection that has a few api calls for pulling info about the items., a dashboard app in the style of the old iGoogle, and I’ve started working on 2 other apps, one to track medical information like blood pressure, glucose, doc appts, care team, medications, etc. The other app is for TTRPG GMs to run games that will basically be a digital GM Screen with a dozen or so tools.
I was a web developer for 20 years before the stroke so I had some previous entry level experience with this type of stuff, but not on this level. Mine was more for like corporate websites. My doctor believes this process has indeed sped up my recovery significantly. So this is just a post to say thanks for this community that has given me tons of ideas for things to try.
I had a stroke very young, early career and was paralyzed for a bit. I did something similar to regain function, keep it up. Don’t forget to sleep and exercise as you can (exercise bikes are usually safe) they provide a cumulative effect with what you’re doing. Feel free to DM if you ever need a chat.
Best of luck in recovery!
Good luck with everything. Go at your own pace, hosting is just leaving a computer on. Add more things as you need and that’s all there is in my opinion. But of course you’ll learn security, backups, and other things as you need.
That’s one thing I especially like about self hosting: You can do it at your own pace. But at the same time there are almost no limits. With today’s technology you can do anything you want.
It helps me if depression hits because you can set your own goals and actually achieve them.

keep up the good fight and keep on keeping on!
You might think your apps aren’t worth sharing, but I think most tabletop GMs are constantly looking for the perfect set of tools for their purposes and I bet yours would probably be just what some people need! I mostly end up just using Obsidian and keeping notes in markdown files, but I know some people want/use a lot of other tools.
Congrats on bouncing back from such a hard thing with such vim and vigor! I hope your recovery continues to go well.
You’re a real legend, wish you the best
My brother…I empathize with your situation. About 25 years ago, I fell from 2 floors up, landed on my skull on a concrete pad and lay there for an undetermined amount of time before someone found me. I suffered a TBI that has gifted me a seizure condition as well as other mental/neuro issues. The right, frontal lobe of my brain looks like a piece of wadded up, cotton candy. I’ve come a long way and I have far to go. I am fortunate and thankful to be alive regardless the situation.
and short term memory [loss]
I spent a week in the hospital after I had a seizure and it wiped my memory. I didn’t know who I was, how to do even simple tasks, or who anyone else was either.
I use selfhosting and computers in general, to do the same thing as you. It keeps me thinking and trying to solve problems. I have problems expressing my thoughts, but the folks here have been patient with all of my silly questions and the occasional inability to grasp the information being presented here at lemmy/selfhosted. I don’t watch TV, but I’ve found structure in reading, and I read a ton of info. I’m more into IT (obviously), history, etc but no fiction.
I truly wish you the very best bro. If I can ever be of assistance, I’m usually around somewhere. We can pair your brain with my .25 brain, and fix something. LOL
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Your dedication to your recovery is so cool. Wish you the best :)
good luck mate, you’re on the right path
Excuse me for not having too much to say besides everyone else in this thread. I just wanted to check-in and say something that I felt upvoting everyone isn’t enough. Wish you all the recovery you can get, and thank you for inspiring too. You’re doing great, at least your grammar is quite good for the situation. Cheers!
Sounds like a really good way to keep your mind fresh after a traumatic event like a stroke. It’s important to keep your mind busy. Glad to hear you’re doing well, and thanks for sharing :)
Wish you a better health, soon
This sounds like a great idea. I would suggest doing also other things that simulate the brain in other ways, like listening to music (or even playing an instrument), visual stimuli (art, nature), physical motion and coordination activities (dance, sports). You may well already do these things, I just felt I should mention it since our culture is so prone to associating brain with mental logic specifically and forgeting how much these other things involve the brain.
Learning a language is another thing with really strong evidence for brain development /preservation.
like listening to music (or even playing an instrument),
I have found great solace in music. I’ve been playing stringed instruments since I was 5. I’ve been a fan of music all of my life. I create music and post on SoundCloud. The benefits of just listening to music I think gets overlooked.
The benefits of just listening to music I think gets overlooked.
Hard agree. And it’s a shame because we have more music at our fingertips now than ever before, from every possible time and place in history. I’m from an era (70s) when just putting a record on and listening to it all the way through was a thing, but I’m not sure how many folks realize today that music can be an event in itself: not as background, but as foreground. Putting it on, sitting in a chair, and just listening while doing little to nothing else.
It’s hard to get time to do it, but when I do it’s heaven. And it absolutely resets my brain in positive ways: afterward, I just feel good. I actually think it might qualify as an ersatz form of meditation, in that a person is not mentally attending anything else while doing this, just listening and letting the auditory experience wash over them. It’s difficult to quantify, but the benefits are very real.
Music is the window to the soul and everyone’s view is different.
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That’s amazing and inspiring, good for you! 😊
Dude you’ve made more in 6–8 months than I had the ambition to accomplish for over a decade now, and I haven’t even started. (Two kids, there’s just no time or energy.)
You’re doing great!







