Vmbr0 should be your VLAN aware bridge. You create this in the pve networking dashboard.
Then create vmbr0_101 (where 101 is your vlan). Also create vbmr0_102, and so on.
Assign those vmbr0_xxx to each of the VMs.
If you host all the VM’s on the same box, create all the vmbr0_xyz in the pve dash, and in each VM/container>networking assign it.
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